Reason: my in-law is India and i am chinese. I eat india food but my in-law is Vegetarian and they only cook india food and other sometime(but not all the time). I am type person who eat different kind of food like thai, chinese, america, pasta and others
I do not wanted to eat india food every day for next few months after the baby is born.
I know a newborn I may need help. My husband is fine either way. It just that i have to cook, while taking care of baby.
I think i am mean person not let them come.
I am not due until Oct.
Should i talk to my-mother-in-law say i cook few times but not india food?
I feel like bad person.. I have not seen them for 3 years after i got marry to my husband.
This is they second grandchild. They first grandchild was from my sister-in-law.
Should i wait later to have them come visit or should i just work something out with my-mother-in-law?
My parents is not far from Me. I know they would help me and i know not with cooking.
I Feel like bad person.
they eat nan and rice all the time.. And last time I gain all my weight back from all the good cooking my -mother-in-law did… And i try to lost and i did but this time after baby it going to be hard
And in expensive at the same time we have to get tickets and buy all the baby stuff..
first- i kind of know how to cook.. I am not bad cook..
second -i have talk to my husband about it.. He said either way is fine with him. IT just that i have to cook and clean up the house while having baby to take care of
Third- I like my -in-laws and i am happy to be they daughter-in-law.