chris m asked:
We have a 5 month old baby and I need us to have time as a family without mother-in-law. Help, this is ruining my relationship with my partner.
July 20, 2006
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We have a 5 month old baby and I need us to have time as a family without mother-in-law. Help, this is ruining my relationship with my partner.
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Serve her a cup of sour tea everyday. It means she’s not welcome anymore.
Comment by hottt_sexi_boi — July 22, 2006 @ 10:34 pm
Buy her a plane ticket home!
Seriously, I am not sure what to tell you, I am sure she is there to help, although you may hate it, talk to your spouse maybe he can tell her that you have had enough help and can handle it on your own.
Comment by Mandalyn — July 26, 2006 @ 4:38 am
Consider yourself lucky, I live with mine and have been for 3 YEARS!!!
Comment by wifa4lifa — July 29, 2006 @ 4:33 am
try talking to your partner bout your problem. Best he makes the first move. Mum in law sometimes can ba a pain in the arse
Comment by Maureen T — August 1, 2006 @ 3:19 am
Chinese? She is here to stay! Besides be glad you have help with the baby. It is a different culture….just learn to deal. Good luck.
Comment by blonddoctor — August 3, 2006 @ 7:29 pm
tell your parter to do that for you
Comment by maya SZ — August 4, 2006 @ 8:44 am
No it is not ruining ur realtionship it is you that who chose to get in to relation in the first place rember all pleasure came with pain and every thing have a price so hold your ground and face what is install for you. If i was to say this in a short way i ll say just get on with your life and stop acting like a babby.
Comment by I.need.a.life — August 7, 2006 @ 5:14 am
have you told her how you feel if youve not you need to so she understands you if shes the type to stay even unwelcome then tell her you have a life also and need to have your own space before things turn into hate belive me living like that is not good for you or the baby or dad and things dont need to get to that if you dont worry and speak your mind and let her know good luck
Comment by private — August 8, 2006 @ 6:06 am
You said partner. Are you a gay couple? Maybe shes trying on purpose to come between you. Any way, walk around naked, I mean from bedroom to bathroom . Like its an accident.Make noise when you have sex. Or if your parten wont let you have sex, fake the noises. She wont know. Goodluck
Comment by budgoeke — August 9, 2006 @ 11:59 pm
invite a north korean over for dinner…
Comment by jon b — August 13, 2006 @ 5:05 am
I think she is there to help out with the baby. A lot of Chinese Mom / Mom-in-laws do that.
Is she taking care of the baby when it cries at night so that you two can go on with your work? If she is, you’d better stock-take the pros and cons first.
Talk to your partner, she is the only one who can do it. Provided she shows no signs of any post-natal depression.
Men are hardwired to look bad to all Mom-in laws. You don’t need to reinforce this impression.
Or you can put it to a vote. But there are three in your house that share the same bloodline. Two share the same surname. But your baby can’t vote. It’s two against one.
The last resort? Bring in your own Mom.
Comment by Dinner — August 14, 2006 @ 1:26 pm